Dennis Declercq

A divorce severely disrupts a child's sense of stability. When parents drop boundaries out of guilt and fall into the "Disneyland Parent" syndrome, it only heightens the child's anxiety. This article explores why predictability and authoritative parenting provide neurological safety, how to handle 'splitting' dynamics, and how clear structure creates a safe harbor—even within parallel parenting setups.

An in-depth psychological analysis of the destructive impact of high-conflict divorces on children. This article explores how forcing a child to choose sides leads to split loyalty conflicts, self-rejection, and parental alienation, backed by developmental research, and offers practical advice for parents to maintain a safe, neutral environment.

Separated parents often struggle with summer planning around camps and holidays. In this blog, we share tips to fairly and peacefully divide vacation time - while keeping your child’s happiness at the center.

Not every co-parenting schedule is the same. Discover why a "good" arrangement doesn’t need to be 50/50, but should fit your child and family situation.

Learn how shared calendars and co-parenting apps bring structure, reduce conflict, and prevent email/sms escalation. Practical tips inside.

What is Cofamly and how can it help you? In this blog article we discuss what Cofamly can do for you!