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Cofamly's AI, and a calmer voice in the middle

Eden is Cofamly's AI, arriving next update — softening messages and coaching you through hard moments.

The Eden screen in the Cofamly app
The Ask Eden screen in the Cofamly app

Ask Eden

Ask Eden anything

Co-parenting is full of moments where you genuinely do not know what is reasonable. Eden is there for those, without an audience.

“Eden sits in the gap between what you feel and what you send.”

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Softens what you were about to send

Type it the way you feel it. Eden offers a calmer version that makes the same point without the damage, and you decide which one sends.

The effect of Eden

64

of parents say the message they almost sent would have made things worse

70

say Eden's rewrite kept their point without the heat

55

say having a second read before sending lowered the tension at home

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Questions about Eden

When is Eden available?

Eden arrives in the next Cofamly update.

Does Eden send messages for me?

No. Eden suggests and you decide. Nothing is sent on your behalf.

Whose side is Eden on?

Neither. Eden coaches between both parents, and its reference point is the child.

What does Eden know about co-parenting?

Eden answers from the Cofamly Library — guidance written by our community of family mediators, child psychologists, family lawyers and parents. Ask a question and the response is built on what they wrote.

What does flagging behaviour mean?

Cofamly is meant to be a workable space between two parents. When something is written that does not belong there, Eden flags it rather than letting it quietly land.

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