“The fight was never about the money. It was about being surprised by it.”
How it stays fair
No more surprise bills
Optional costs need the other parent's OK before they count, so nobody discovers a bill after the fact.
The effect of Cofamly Split
of parents say costs stopped being a monthly argument after two weeks of using Split
say they finally agree on what counts as a shared expense
say seeing the month at a glance ended most money discussions before they started
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Questions about Split
What is the difference between obligated and optional costs?
Obligated costs are ones you have already agreed to share, so they are simply registered. Optional costs sit outside that agreement and only count once the other parent accepts them.
What happens if the other parent does not accept a cost?
It stays a proposal. Optional costs only enter the shared overview once accepted, so nothing is added to the total unilaterally.
Can I see everything for one month?
Yes. Cofamly Split gives a simple monthly overview of all registered costs.
Can I link a cost to something in the calendar?
Yes. A finance item can be attached to a calendar event, so the cost and the thing that caused it stay together.
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